I feel like in a moral limbo here. A few years ago I rejected a guy I fell in love with when he asked me out for a date cause he was together with someone and had a kid with that person. I am borderline aspie and my social skills and dating skills suck big time so finding someone else who genuinely likes me is a huge feat and I couldn't help but continue asking what if? What if? So I told his sister about my feelings and I suspect that she told him about them and now he is single and wants to date me. So am I responsible or is he responsible or it doesn't really matter what happens. Am I homewrecker or is it OK in this circumstance to express your feelings.
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It is ok to express your feelings. But destroying a relationship in the process is not. You have to think about yourself here. He already broke up with his ex - to follow his gut feeling. Give it a try. You can't do more than fail at a relationship and learn for the future ahead.
Failing is a part of life - humans fail to learn. Stop doubting yourself. He made his decision - without your consult. You don't know if he was happy with her or whatnot. She might even be the greatest mistake in his life.
Just don't let yourself be impregnated by him and see how he feels - follow your gut, turn your head off and go for it.
And don't ask him about her!1