I'm about to be 22 and I've never dated. I think my standards might be too high to be honest. I don't think they are extremely high as I don't only go after models or gorgeous girls but I like the cute or pretty ones like 7-8/10s in my opinion at least. I'm really not into overweight girls, it's just not my style. I can't get a Tinder match though which makes me think I'm pretty low on the attractiveness scale. I don't think I'm ugly but I'm not exactly handsome in my eyes. I have been told I look young and have a face that lacks masculinity. Am I aiming out of my league and should lower my standards? Be honest , girls!
By the way, personality is the most important part of a person to me. I'm just talking about physical attraction though, which also matters. :)
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I hate to say it, but you are fooling yourself, but not the ones you are pursuing. You say that personality is the most important part, but that you are only talking about physical attraction, "which also matters".
By what you said you have placed physical attractiveness as your first prority. Personality would only be the frosting on the cake. You are my friend, setting yourself up for continued failure to achieve what you desire. Aquiring a girl who happens to be very pretty will not satidfy your heart alone. And there's a good chance you will not like their personality. You could get lucky, but I doubt it. The reason I say that is that most GOOD girls have the savvy to see through a guys BS. Any girl that is worth chasing will make sure she outruns and avoids you. Trust me.
As far as your looks, you appear to be handsome enough. Your character that you display is what makes you attractive. Now even though I pointed out some negatives that I have noticed, I will end with a suggestion, and one that every guy should do. For the next 2 weeks, try making sure that the first thing you look at on a girl is her eyes. Do not look at anything else, no matter how tempting. Keep your gaze upon her eyes. If you get close enough, offer a slight smile. If you are so lucky as to talk to her, maintain your gaze only upon her eyes. And when you walk away, do not look back at her. What this will do is help you to start engaging girls at a super personal level, eye to eye. Now granted, some might have bodies that you do not prefer, at the moment. What you should do is, ask yourself if you could By doing this, you are engaging in a girl's personality FIRST. Now you might find that some of the girls who have been out of your reach will now at least talk with you. Perhaps more. Most any girls complaint about single guys is that guys are pigs. And they are right. Just make sure they don't see you that way. Good luck...0