I am traditional and I dont message guys first. I have tried tinder and plenty of fish in the past and I would get at least 10 messages a day but on okcupid i get 1-2. Did anyone else have a similar experience? I am 24 years old and fairly attractive. Is the website not worth a try?
I dont use tinder because I bump into people I know or people with mutual friends and I find it a bit weird.
Most Helpful Guy
Try a paid site imho.
You mentioned you're a doctor, and my gut is a lot of guys will feel that they're below your standards unless they're reasonably successful financially. Successful enough they wouldn't bat an eye at spending for a paid dating site. The guys I know irl who have done online dating have used paid sites.1