I've been seeing my bf for almost a month. We're both 24. He told me he wanted to be honest with me from the start of our relationship so he told me about a 'friend' of his who he still talks to.
They met a year ago and dated for a week. They pretty much did everything except have sex. She confessed to him that she has a boyfriend back home in her city. My bf said that he was really hurt but that he liked her and asked her to choose him or her bf. She chose her bf as she's been with him for 2 years and she was only in my bfs city for 2 months for an internship. She stayed with her bf and even though she says she felt really guilty she keeps messaging my bf on fb. They basically talked every single week for a year they never talk about anything personal like relationships etc but only 'mundane' study stuff.
He still talks to her now but not as much as before now that he's with me. I told him that I'm very uncomfortable with him still talking to her while we are together esp since she's still with the bf who she cheated with even though I trust my bf, I don't trust her.
My bf said he can understand why I would feel uncomfortable but he will still talk to her now and then. Am I right to be upset about this? He's getting upset at me for feeling this way thinking that I don't trust him no matter how many times I tell him I do. If he really cares for me would he tell me he'd stop talking to her on his own accord esp since he tells me she's not even someone important to him?
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He is lying that she is not important to him, otherwise he would not talk to her. It seems messy to me, she is definitely not cool, i wouldn't want to have anything to do with her.2