i got married on june 5th,2009. we have been married for 2 months. to make matters worse I am 11 weeks pregnant :(
we were dating for 7 months before we decided to get married.
i admit that I was checking his emails and phone. I am not going to sit here and deny it. well he had like a bunch of women on his yahoo messenger. then I saw women with webcams doing sexual stuff. then that led me to look in his phone. which I found over 50 women's numbers. I read the text messages and they were sexual plus pics of them nude. give me your honest opinions please. honestly I feel like getting drunk and not caring anymore then I would commit suicide.
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Wow he obviously has some kind of sickness.
First thing you should do is save everything you can (You might need it later on). Save it somewhere he won`t see.
After you are done with that, go out and take a walk. Or do anything that would help release the tension.
You are angry, and hurt right now, and you have to find a way to release it before you talk to him about it. If you start yelling at him or throwing things, it won`t make you feel better, and it won`t fix anything. It will just make it worse, and your condition.
Next, leave one of his emails open, with a naked girl or whatever. This will let him know that you KNOW. Then pack some clothes and stay at a friend`s place, or your parents. You need to be away from him for now, and be around people who can take care of you.
Talk to him after a few days after you`ve cleared your head and tought things thru.2