I've never in my life approached a man first, but I'm not opposed to it. I'm just shy.
Today I met a guy who was very attractive and I can tell he was interested in me but it would've been awkward for him to ask me for my number (my mom was there lol) So I wanted to say something, but didn't know where to start. What would I say without coming off... unlady-like?
As much as guys on here welcome women being the aggressor, I've heard a lot of guys make fun of it when in happens in real life. So can a guy please tell me a REALISTIC way to do this without looking desperate.
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If your really just met a guy and wanted to give him his number, but you had no idea what you had in common with him, and were unable to come up with an excuse, I can think of only one way to do it.
Scribble your phone number and first name on a piece of crumpled paper and slip it into his hand with a handshake as you leave, probably saying "It was nice to meet you!" while giving the pretties smile you can manage.
If the guy had any interest in you whatsoever, he'd be unable to restrain himself from either calling or texting you later, and then you could laugh it off and explain how it was the best plan you could muster to give him the chance of getting to know you better.
If a girl did that to me, I'd totally text her at least long enough to thank her for the consideration, unless I was in a relationship already, in which case I'd just be a little flattered and then move on.2