If you are friends with a girl/guy and you pursue them, only to be turned down, how does it feel and what do you end up thinking about them as a person?
Does it make a difference if you are not friends? Do you still like them? Or do you feel a bit of animosity towards them?
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It is not what people say that hurts , its what they do that matters. If someone is adult enough to say what they think or feel (at the time) and make it clear then it is generally acceptable, but if they behave like a school girl and be the exact opposite to the person you thought you knew, then that is pretty evil. What I mean is if you have broken up, but you know later they have a problem. So (as a friend) you send them a concerned email asking if they are OK and you either get no reply or a rude reply, (for example) that is unnecessary and childish. Then you realise that they were not the person you thought they were. You don't need to be enemies with people you broke up with.
To break up and be friends should be just that. Rude behaviour does make me a little angry and I don't need friends like that. Yes, they can fly a kite.0