I have been talking to a wonderful lady for a while now. It began as friends, but it has turned into more, for both of us. The only problem is, her last serious relationship, she was physically and sexually abused and now is very scared. I can understand that and we are taking it slow. The only problem is, she says she is even too scared to give me a phone number or a picture. We are 10 hours away, so even if I were a "bad person" I wouldn't have easy access to her. Can someone be so scared that they would even be afraid of giving their number out? Or is this something I should be looking into this more?
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of course, she was beaten and raped/sexually assaulted by someone she trusted completely so its natural she's not going to trust complete strangers either. What if you were her ex posing as someone else because he can't let go? what if you were lying about where you lived and wanted to take advantage of vulnerable people? the internet is full of liars and to a paranoid person you could be anyone with any motivation. just take things slowly with her and show her you are nothing like her ex and you're someone she can truly trust.0