In the past, I caught my boyfriend texting and flirting with girls via text and Facebook. We recently got back together and I asked to see his phone, but he got really upset saying that I wasn't trusting him. I am trying and he knows, but there are times when i doubt. I do respect his privacy and DO NOT snoop, but was that really wrong? It's not like I snooped and before I never would ask. It's only because things that had happened in the past. He let me look, but he got upset...
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Trust is the keyword. By asking to see you're comunicating that you don't trust him to stay 100% faithfull, and does not trust him to tell the truth.
Don't ask him to show, ask him to tell if you wonder. Give HIM the chance to tell the truth first, wether it be good or bad. And don't get mad at him if you don't like the truth. Be understanding, and let him explain. Listen exactly as much as you expect him to listen to your problems! Then you two are to work it out TOGETHER
THAT is how to solve it0