Okay, I want to know if any of you have the same views as my boyfriend because I find this very odd... I have a gay friend, we'll call him A, and A grabbed my butt today in class. I asked my boyfriend if it bothered him and he said it didn't. I asked him why and he said it was because he was gay. He expressed that if the guy was gay it was okay as long as it didn't bother me, but he would have a problem if the guy was either bi or straight... Do any of you have the same views? This is really confusing me. I've never known a guy to think like that.
Guys help please? Boyfriend has very odd opinion, any comments?
What Guys Said 7
your bf simply is threatened because the guy who grabbed your butt isn't sexually into you. it would be like if one of your gf's grabbed your butt or boobs, that's how I think he sees it.
I think would tend to agree with your bf and feel similarly. it would bother me if you felt bothered by it0
Most people who claim they are gay are not really gay they are bi. There are far fewer people who are only attracted to one sex then both. Case in point if your gay friend ever had sex with a chick he is bi because a gay wouldn't get an erection. Thats what homosexual means, you literally do not get aroused by the opposite sex and do by the same.
So yes it would bother me because I dont know if he's really gay or bi0
I wouldn´t accept that even if my GF friend was gay. That is a lack of respect. The guy can feel as girly as he wants but he is a guy not a girl. If I had a lesbian as friend I wouldn´t let her do me that cause I shurely know It would be annoyng for my GF.0
What Girls Said 1
I think he thinks like that because a gay guy won't get aroused by touching you that way because you're a girl. A bi or straight guy would be different because touching your ass could be sexual and a turn on for them..0
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