I am 17 and my close friend (18) has a younger sister who is 17. She is a first year in uni, just like us and we have a lot in common. They live together and are really close, he's really protective of her. I really like her, it's really not just about sex. Does that make it okay to date her? She's really beautiful XD, and smart. I'm not really sure if she likes me, but I think she might. We share these looks and she flirts with me when he's not around. Should I tell him before I pursue her? Should I pursue her at all? If we did start dating, we couldn't really hide it (not that I want to) because, as I said, they live together.
Also, how would I tell him?
- Never date a friends sisterVote A
- Ask him before you pursue herVote B
- Tell him when you have something to tellVote C
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My partner was good friends with my brother and he actually went and spoke to my brother about me before doing anything, which I thought was incredibly sweet and lovely and considerate of him. My brother isn't super protective of me though, but at the time I had a lot of personal stuff going on and my brother told him that now might not be the best time - which my partner took as meaning I wasn't interested and that my brother didn't think it was a good idea so got the hump a bit, but it all worked out fine. If you're very close friends I'd speak to him first, or find out if she likes you then go speak to him.0