We work together and we've hung out at coffee shops as friends but this time he said he wanted to take me to this place for dinner and then dessert after. I joked about it sounding like a date (to see his reaction) but he didn't respond to it. When he picked me up he was dressed up more than usual and he wouldn't let me pay at all which was a first since we usually split. When we went for dessert he kept moving his chair super close to me. There wasn't any intimacy other than the one time he put his arm around me to cheer me up. Is he just really friendly? Why would he not tell me if he wanted it to be a date or not? Also, do guys treat a girl they only see as a friend to dinner and dessert or just when it's a date/with someone they like?
- He likes you but too afraid to be direct about itVote A
- It wasn't a date, he's just being a nice friendVote B