I'm a guy in college and I met this girl about four months ago. We started talking and I tried really hard not to lead her on because I wasn't at a good place with my life and I didn't feel like I could treat her like she deserved to be treated. I guess I didn't do that well enough & I found tweets from her saying about how it was "true love" and how we have so much in common & that she looked forward to opening a text from me. I felt so bad for what I did and I cried myself to sleep for several nights. We hung out a few times just as friends and I really started to fall for her & realized that having her in my life could really change things for me. Well... now she's started talking to her ex boyfriend again and I think they might be starting something & it makes me absolutely sick to my stomach that I messed around and lost a really good girl. I know I probably really deserve this, but is there any way I could possible try to win her back? We have SO much in common & I really love talking to her. I was thinking about hand writing her a letter telling her everything. What should I do? Should I just tell her in person or do the letter thing or just let her go?
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Tell her in person1