So this guy i know about, he dated a girl for 6 years. They broke up last year, and she has a kid with another guy now.
He dated a girl for a month or so after meeting her on tinder and hit it off really well with her and really liked her, told her he liked her , but because he had a lot going on and they didn't live in same town, he stopped talking to her all of the suddent, and when she asked what was wrong , he said he wasn't looking for anything serious because he had no time for it.
They remained as friends because he said she is a cool girl. She didn't bother him for 6-7 months, and he contacted her now in September , telling her he had moved to her town and wanted to meet her. They met and had a great time, no sex involved. He told her that she should contact him whenever she wanted to hang out, and shouldn't hesistate. She did one day asking if he wanted to go on a bike ride, trying to keep things friendly, he unfortunatly wasn't able to that day , and told her that he would let her know when he could.. its been over a month now..
He also leaving in December to go to another country for 3 months to work as a voulanter..
But the thing is that she logged into tinder , made a new account out of curiousity and found his profile there.. recently being on.
So why do guys want to screw around, while they know they can have a good girl?
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The question is.. why not?
Even though i respect equality and i like it. Men are women are not built the same. We have similar desires... but different quantities and in different stages of our lives. Both love sex, but men are more willing to do it without commitment. Both love family, but men are more willing to have it later in life.
Have you ever seen two girls that have totally different personalities? one of them wants to sleep around and have fun and the other is a virgin waiting for marriage? If you can have this difference within the same sex.. imagine how different it is if you are built differently.
Many girls think men are jerks. The thing is... is they were to be a man, they would probably have the same urge to behave the same way.
I know two of my friends who want to only date girls and have sex with them without any further commitment. Both of them are really decent and not evil. Have many friends that are girls and are loved.
Now on the other hand, there a re guys who think they found their girl , and they want to stay with her. Because she is the one. So don't take it personally when a guy doesn't want to commit to you. It is about their nature and not about you. Get to know many guys even as friends, and sometime one of you will want to make you his forever.0
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