So my guy friend has been with his girlfriend for a little over a year. Me and him were talking the other day. I asked him why he puts up with the things she is doing? ( note she hacked into his account and had him stop talking to " those bitches" who are his friends! Even tried to stop him from talking to me! ) he could not say anything. I think asked if he was in love with her. He said he never wanted to be in the relationship with her. That it just happened. I asked him why he just don't leave it, because it's clear he is not happy with her. He said she is nice and his ex wife likes her and his kids like her. I did not know what to tell him at that point... why would a man stay with a woman who he is not in love with and just because his kids like her and his ex wife likes her. Most his friends he had to give up. He has known from the time we were in school. He told me that he could not give me up at all. That I mean to much to him. I get the feeling he has feelings for me, but he will not come out and say anything. Just says I'm his dear friend, but the way he looks at me and always trying to see me alone. He confused me so much. I just want to see him happy and as his friend. I can tell he is not truly happy with her. It's like he is content to stay with her no matter what she dose, because his kids and ex wife likes her... just don't get why a guy would do that to himself.
Why do men stay with a woman they are not in love with?
What Guys Said 4
So they can fuck her0
She's most likely freaking gorgeous0
What Girls Said 3
Maybe the man really loves his woman, don't believe in everything guys say even you're his closest friend ever. He may have feelings for you but not deep enough to end his relationship with the other woman. A man only becomes stupid when he's inlove. His girlfriend wants to end his communication with you and other girlfriends that he has because she wants her boyfriend to avoid temptation.0
Kids, loyalty, friendship, comfort, fear0
Feel bad for her... rebound... green card... fortune seekers etc.0
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