My friend would never go against me. She's not looking for a relationship right now, but she thinks he likes me. He's my good friend; I really like him. The reason why I'm second guessing his intentions is because he tries including her in "our" time. He will tell her about our inside jokes. He complimented her hair once. :( at parties though, he's always with me. He always asks me to sit with him on the bus. He a tells me personal things, so wouldn't he tell me if he liked my friend. I don't know if I just get jealous too easily, or is my heart telling me something? Do I need a reality check?
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Actually I've been this guy before.
I really liked this girl, but she was literally never without her best friend. I'd started liking her after a few weeks of us three hanging out, but I'm a fairly shy guy and it was too hard for me to tell her anything in front of her friend.
I think from what you describe he probably likes you. He's including her in your 'our' time because she's your best friend and he assumes you will want her in on it, and same with inside jokes. He complimented her because (I know this will sound bad but it makes sense) the last person you want to be your enemy is your crush/girlfriend's best friend.
I think the fact that he likes to sit with you on the bus, be with you at parties and that he tells you personal things shows that he likes you. But no, if I were him I wouldn't tell you or your best friend that I liked the other one. Girls are notorious for telling their best friends EVERYTHING, not that that's a bad thing but if I don't want you to know that I like you just yet, I also don't want your friend to know.1
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