I'm an 18 year old girl. I put myself in plenty of situations where I'm able to meet guys, both by myself and with my girlfriends. None of us have ever been approached, asked for a number, had a drink bought for us... nothing like that. The only move guys seem to make on me or my girlfriends come of a quite sexual, like trying to touch inappropriately while we're dancing or something. I'm just curious as to whether guys my age, or in their early 20's are interested in relationships and whether they ask girls out on dates anymore. Does chivalry exist anymore? Maybe I'm living in the wrong time. Thanks for any answers :)
Do guys still ask girls out on dates?
What Guys Said 13
Depends on where you're at. Most people see a "relationship" type of date when two people bump into each other at the grocery store or book store and start talking. But if you're going to bars and stuff you're gonna get hit up for sex basically. Your age range is notorious for being the "party phase" of people's lives where people randomly sleep around and stuff. There's really nothing wrong with it if you're safe about that stuff. Many people get all the hooking up outta their system then around 25-30's look for settling down when they have jobs and a place to live and so on.1
Probably because when a guy says "hello how are you doing" and it's deemed harassment these days. See "Woman Secretly Records 10 Hours of Harassment" video.4
Yeah I do and I get rejected all the time, I don't blame anyone I just need to work on my game. Cut some guys slack it's hard because it feels like your going to get thrown out of an airplane each time you do it with the way my heart rate increases. So how about you either start it yourself or have eye contact, smile and say hello.1
Yes, but I don't recommend it to guys anymore unless he's already in a relationship because that tends to lead to an expectation for the guy to pay for most if not all of it. And if you're just dating around to get to know people, that is a lot of money1
I do it all the time it doesn't seem to work 70% of the time but damn its worth a try and its a hard thing to do face to face. Haha i feel like girls are so stunned that they tell me no!
Also the girls i ask sometimes i know them, sometimes i don't.
Chivalry is not dead a carry the torch lol.0
Not me.. Id never put myself through that humiliation2
I'd say that those guys are missing out on a lot. But in general, I think guys are idiots for a much longer time period than they were previously...0
Yes, I think so.0
Yes, but they're usually ugly1
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