The only reason I think it is funny because they are not fooling most people and it's funny they think they can. Many males and females use the excuse,''for health reasons'' they don't want to date a fat person when in reality most but not all the time the only reason or sole reason they don't want to date a fat person is because they think they look ''disgusting.'' Females especially have a hard time admitting it online or in person during conversations. By the way I am not overweight, and have nothing against overweight people at all.
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I refuse to get serious with someone who i would constantly have to worry about catching a heart attack, dying on me and leaving me lonely. I would also never date someone with a dangerous job whose life is always at risk for the same reasons too. I also would not date anyone who does drugs or smokes out of fear that they would die on me. I come from a family of drug abusers and people with diabetes. My aunt had diabetes and she smoked and then she died becasue her arteries got colgged up. My mom died from fucking up her heart after many years smoking cocaine and overdosing. My father is a recoveirng alchoholic and has been clean for 4 years, he currently has diabetes and high blood pressure and still eats bad and it is extremely hard for me being worried every day that he is going to die on me. I encourage him to eat better and work out and at one time he was doing it and lost a bunch of weight then he gained it back again.
Why would i want to take on another person who constanlty has me anxious? It is just easier on me if they actually cared about their health. I work out regulalrly and watch what I eat becaseu i am scared of being unhealthy and i have explained to every guy that has persued me how I am extremely health cautious and that i am afriad of getting serious with someone who also doesn't care about their health. Even guys who are not obese i have told them the same things.
My fiance is chubby but he is not at a health risk and I still nag him about eating right and watching what he eats. He goes to the gym everyday and we have fun working out together.
why can't people understand that the point of dating is to end up with the person that you do best with? I just do not match with someone that does not care about their health. Everyone is not meant for everyone and people need to get over the fact that they do not match with a certain person. Just becasue you dont match one person does not mean your match is not out there.0