So I am bit shy with the males. Even when they compliment me I do not know how to deal with it. As I do have low self esteem. So when a guy does say nice things I dont believe it or just think he's after some booty.
Out and about I've approached a guy twice this year. Both times ended badly but I did get their number but it didn't work out after a date with one of them he was far too into working then having a gf so we no longer talk.
My interaction levels with guys have hit an all time low last year I was more outgoing an now I've become bit reclused. So when I do go out guys stare but dont come on over an I keep thinking what am I doing wrong?
When I go to clubs or bars. Guys tell me I am beautiful but thats about it an most of them want to hook up and nothing more which is why I avoid those places now.
In my. neighborhood guys say I am fit and stare but seem to have an intimidated sort of look on their face. This one guy I thought is cute. Turns around when he sees me and goes all awkward on me so I guess he dont like me. You guys can see my other question for my interactions with him.
I just feel like I am unaproachable but would a guy see it that way or think I am a stuck up cow? lol
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Your face expression is probably serious looking and might make guys think that you don't want any of them. I just checked out your profile pic and your beautiful I like your hair but your face expression is somewhat like mine it looks serious and makes people think you don't want any one to approach you. Just work on smiling more when you notice a guy looking at you because your intimidating to them and if you like the guy that's looking at you try giving him a smile.1