is sleeping with someone on the first date a good idea or not?
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>you find out if your sexually compatible.
> you fond out if you're being used for sex
> you find to if they would loser respect for your enjoyment of sex.
> you find out if you're attracted to each other cloth less.
> you find out how they handle post sex intimacy -or lack of.
> you get it out of the way so there's not ton of physical tension and stupidity brought on by the energy being used to not think of sex.
> physical barrier is broken. things flow easier.
> pre sex anxiety is gone.
> you dk them well haven't built up a lot of trust so sex might suck jus bc of that.
> if you're not comfortable being vulnerable too soon you might lose interest before you would otherwise just bc you feel awkward.0