What do u think about this?

is sleeping with someone on the first date a good idea or not?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • >pros

    >you find out if your sexually compatible.

    > you fond out if you're being used for sex

    > you find to if they would loser respect for your enjoyment of sex.

    > you find out if you're attracted to each other cloth less.

    > you find out how they handle post sex intimacy -or lack of.

    > you get it out of the way so there's not ton of physical tension and stupidity brought on by the energy being used to not think of sex.

    > physical barrier is broken. things flow easier.

    > pre sex anxiety is gone.

    cons

    > you dk them well haven't built up a lot of trust so sex might suck jus bc of that.

    > if you're not comfortable being vulnerable too soon you might lose interest before you would otherwise just bc you feel awkward.

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What Girls Said 2

  • I personally would not, but if both people feel like it is the right time, I guess they can go for it. I just think connecting on an intellectual level first is important.

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  • If it feels right and you are both not it, go for it.

    I would personally never sleep with someone on a first date.

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What Guys Said 2

  • If it feels right for both, it's obviously not a bad idea. But I guess that's different for everyone.

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  • It depends but I would rather hold out for at least a week or 3. It takes away much of the discipline and mystery if I do it the first time.

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