This girl I know flirts with me A LOT and she always messages me first and that sort of thing like she's interested in me but I've been staying away from her because even though she does these, she goes out partying almost every weekend, makes out with random guys and then tells me about it (Even though she said she's drunk when these things happen, I don't find it's a good excuse) and sometimes her and her friends talk about other guys in front of me. I don't want to catch feelings for someone like that because it just sounds like too much stress being put on me but when i'm with her and we go out, I like her dating potential but there's soo many red flags. Basically I just wanted to know what do you guys think she wants from me?
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She's interested and is really trying to grab your attention in the most immature ways. I don't think this is a definite indicator that she will be wild and disloyal, but she is definitely inexperienced when it comes to how she handles getting attention. She may not see anything serious and just has the attitude to explore. I would wait and maybe advance a little, but keep in mind that even if she is interested, she may not be mature enough to develop a healthy stress-free relationship.1