I know there isn't an exact time on when to get physical with someone you're dating. However, when is it too soon?
I've been dating this guy for a little over a month now. I think we have a great physical connection. We've had our fun while still in our clothes. He's hinted it's time for us to go all the way, and although I want to, I can't shake the feeling that is too soon. Is it? should I just go with the flow?
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Ask yourself, do you know what it is that you want with this guy?
Do you see him as someone you can be in a relationship with? Do you want a relationship?
Do you know what the guy wants?
Do not have sex untill you two have fully communicated what you want with each other that way you will know what to expect after you have sex. You do not want to be one of thoes girls that wants a relationship only to find out that the guy just wanted sex with no commitment and then she is being strung along thinking that she can get a relationship out of him and being trapped in a friends with benefits relatinship that she never intended to be in because they never communicated what their intentions were.
If you want a relationship then ask the guy how he feels about relationships. If he wants a relationship too then tell him that you would like to get to know him with intentions of it growing into a relationships. If you two are on track to a relationship then you can have sex anytime you want and the guy will still think of you as relationship potential.
If the guy is not looking for anything serious and you are not looking for anything serious then have sex with him any time you want. If you both have communicated that then you will know what to expect after sex. You both will be dating but with no commitment or will be friends with benefits.
If the guy is not looking for anything serious but you do want something serious then you can decide if you still want to have sex with him anyway. He may not be the commitment type but you could still have fun with him while meeting another guy who actually is looking for a relationship.
Its best to find out before you have sex so that you know what to expect afterwards especially if you are the type to catch feelings1
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