Been seeing someone exclusively for three months. When we are together, everything is great (2-3 times a week)... When we are apart I still want to feel connected so periodicly I will text, not really expecting a response but when he does respond it is open ended and it makes me smile, thinking we are about to talk... After I respknd back the convo typically goes no where. I called him today to which he ended up returning my call at 5 when I got off... Told him I would call him later and he said he would be happy to talk if he was up. I ended up calling, no answer, so I texted good night.
I wish he would just tell me good night. Like my day feels incomplete without telling him because he is the last thing on my mind. Does that make me crazy?
I wanted to spend the night Friday and get breakfast in the morning Saturday before the farmers market.,. Now I don't even feel like asking. I feel like such a annoying person when I text but he says I am not bothering him, I just don't get why he cannot close a convo and always leaves it open.
Should I wait for him to contact me?
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Everything is fine and dandy when you both are together, Justcurious, and this is a good sign that you and him are doing something right to keep this chemistry sizzling and sensational, no problems in Denmark. However, being apart, you both lead separate lives, different schedules and things are not always Hunky Dorey, for what it seems, on your end here.
I am feeling when you are apart he wants his space. He doesn't want to feel he has to text or call or do anything like this with Obligation written al over it. And as frustrating as it may be, for I have gone through it myself in life, and with a guy like this one, he is most likely not a big fan of talking on the phone or pushing a button for texting neither.
Send him one text a day. Let him reply if he feels like it. I agree with you he should have the common decency to return it but with some guys, a label of Official is usually written all over each one that is sent. And with you spending 2-3 days as a couple a week, this is ample time to nurse and nurture this relationship. He obviously is into you, may even want more down the road, but for now, he is comfortable with what he has with you.
Yes, he should of written a good nite at least last nite. This is showing me and it should be showing you that he can be thoughtless. He has flaws but then don't many of today's toms?
For now, as long as he doesn't Abuse your kindness or put you on his pay no mind list all the time, you are still in there and going strong.
As far as tomorrow, just simply suggest what you may want to do. I am sure he will be all for it... sounds like fun... and if he does hymn and haw, tell him it means a lot to you and next time you both can do something he wants to do... This is what I call Compromise. Perhaps it is time for you both to talk about This.