He kisses me, hugs me tight, tells me of course he loves me, says he wants me to have his kids a year from now, cuddles me, kisses my hand, calls me cute, and says there is no other woman in his life but me. He just doesn't want to date right now. He's busy working on a project that he believes will be a success.
What can I do to make him commit? I've asked him if he'd care if I dated someone else and his answer was yes and no. Yes but no because I can do what I want and he can't tell me no. At the same time he asked why I can't just be single... and I told him, I want someone to be there for me. I want a future with someone. He understands.
I guess the question is why? Why won't he commit and what can I do to make him?
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He is just happy being single even if he likes you. Some people are just very independent its pretty normal. But you are also normal for wanting to move forward. I know it hurts but do not take it personally. You have a very tough choice to make so try to stay calm. If he likes you and you both agree to be exclusive and not sleep around or date then you are basically in a relationship. Yes maybe its not perfect but that is the call you have to make. Can you be in a relationship without a label and without all the perks till he is ready or would you rather be heart broken for a bit and find someone who is moving your speed? Its a tough call and I wish you the best of luck with it.1