I met this guy in a group I joined at my university. He's the most attractive one in the group, very outgoing, lots of tattoos, very edgy and different. And then he started to gain interest in me, so we started talking more and when we hung out alone for the first time.. we walked around town and kissed on a roof (very romantic). We talked about ourselves what we thought of each other and he is actually really really sweet. Like more sweet and down to earth than I imagined.
And this is a problem, because I'm not looking for anything serious or to the point where I want someone to get to know me. i have commitment issues, and my ex still talks to me and makes me feel bad for talking to any other guys. It's just weird to me how fast me and this new guy are getting along, and how similar and drawn to each other we are. and I'm not ready but he is so sweet, and I like him probably as much as he seems to like me (he seems really interested, and treats me like a woman and not an object).
Weirdly, I was hoping he would be more of an aloof, distant person because I'm only looking for someone as a casual partner. I really like him, and I want to get close to him but I'm afraid of him not liking me and my imperfections...
Any advice? or personal experiences?