Hi, for most of my early life I had "mental / social" issues brought on by bad parenting (and medications that I did not want) which over time caused me to become an introvert / nerd / etc.
I didn't bother even looking for a girlfriend because I knew even if i got one I probably couldn't keep her as my interests are very uncommon in girls (I am a gamer, I like mostly indoor activities etc)
My few experiences with girls have been overall "enjoyable at the time" but were usually rollercoasters. While I would usually consider myself the "weird" person in any given group It makes sense to assume it was me causing these relationships to go bad, but overtime I realized these girls were just crazy... Am I a crazy girl magnet?
Anyway probably too "wall of text" for most, but my question is: How can a nerd like myself (My job, Hobby and Goals all involve computers) find and KEEP a girlfriend? (No I am not fat or ugly). I have met a couple girls in person which never went too far, and several online, only one of which I even got to meet in person. Every time they usually end up becoming "bipolar" as in: "Oh baby I love you so much!" Next day: "My life sucks, I want to die, I don't know if I love you..."
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You have probably heard this more times than you want or care to remember but you will find the right girl some day. I won't sugar coat it like most people seem to try to do. You are just very in a very unfortunate position when it comes to meeting girls and I am in the same category as you. There are two main reasons why things are difficult. One of the reasons is that most guys out there have more tolerance for the "bipolarism" that you described. Level headed individuals like us realize that girls are human beings too and should have be able to control their emotions once they start to get out of hand, just as their male counterparts do. Unfortunately most guys are so desperate for pussy that they usually just deal with it and accept that sort of behavior as "girl behavior." Another reason is that the "good girls" that you mentioned are very well sought after girls by every guy, including the ones I just mentioned. Most guys would prefer one of the "good girls" but they'll settle for the bipolar ones if they can't find one. My point is, it's gonna be hard and it will take a while but you will find the right girl some day. It took years before I met a girl who I love and who loves me. I know this may not be shedding help directly on your situation but I hope that it at least changes your mindset toward it. Good luck.0