A guy must risk tremendous embarrassment just to ask a girl out. If he is lucky, he will get only that embarrassment by receiving a no. If he is unlucky, he gets a yes.
To get across why, I will say that an average date will cost the guy $50. It may be more, maybe less, but that seems about average. Remember that with each passing date, and with each passing moment of that small talk you mention, the guy increases his chances that he will say something stupid. Every time a guy opens his mouth, he runs the risk off saying something stupid; and dating requires him to open his mouth a lot.
So let's say he goes on one date, spends $50. Second date, $50. Third date, $50. Fourth date, says something stupid, she breaks up with him, but he still has to spend $50. There goes $200 down the drain. Each good date requires that he invest more money for the next date, yet each next date runs the risk of more stupidity and therefore runs the higher risk of a breakup.
Essentially, the guy invests more money to make his investment less secure. Basic logic should tell him that does not make good business sense.
Most Helpful Girl
Business sense and dating don't belong in the same sentence. The more dates you have with a girl, the closer you should be getting to each other. If you aren't acquiring mutual affection and interest, then you should probably both continue to see other people. Girls risk embarrassment just like guys do, don't you think we get nervous about dates too? Worry we'll say the wrong thing or not say the right thing? Dating is a risk, but the reward you get from a loving partner is a special thing that you really can't put a price on.1
Most Helpful Guy
Hello R3d anonymous...
No, this is horrible logic. It is riddled with assumptions and sexist ideals. You are also weighing means and goals. Are the means worth pursuing the end goals is the question you are asking. That all depends, and you can come to answers for good reasons or bad, You seem to have come to it with bad reasons, once again: STOP READING THAT RED PILL SHIT.1
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