I'm looking to get a girlfriend and I decided to ask what different girls find attractive.
Most Helpful Girl
Attraction, for me, is in essence the synchronicity of values. If we share the same reasons for living, then I connect with someone on a deep level. By that, I do not mean that we have the same hobbies, and must like exactly the same things. It goes deeper than whether we both have a fetish for cotton candy (we so do, though! =P), but on how we see life. I've never been a person who finds the unfamiliar and contrasts as particularly attractive.
I like someone who has the same morals, on the whole, to myself. The same level of empathy to the human condition, and whether we have the same gusto for life in that we can share experiences together and bounce off each other. Physicality is a little bit like looking at a shiny new iPhone? Sure, it looks pretty, but next year, I will find the newer model more appealing. It isn't exactly the basis of longevity.
In short. If I get happy feels off of a guy, then I'm taken. =)1