My best friend and I have been friends for 15 years now she is the sister I never had. I dated her younger brother by 2 years for 2 years and we broke up. It was a friendly break up on both ends we just wanted different things and knew it wouldn't work out. My friend is all pissed at mW because supposedly I broke her brother's heart into pieces. I tried talking to her and she won't even listen to me. I never take sides in a break up between people unless like one person did something really nasty to the other person. It just hurts that she isn't even willing to hear my side of the situation at all and here I thought we were so close she viewed me like a sister. Its like you were willing to listen to his side what about mine there are 2 sides to every story. Sure he may feel a lite hurt about the break up but what about me doesn't she realize I could be in some pain too? What should I say to her so she will hear me out? It hurts soooo much because we have been very close friends for so long. I feel she is being a bad friend for not even hearing me out.
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Let her cool off for a while. Maybe she'll realize that she's being childish. If not, maybe talk to her brother about it? If you really did end it on somewhat good terms, he could probably explain to her that it would be really unnecessary of her to stop being your friend since the breakup wasn't all too bad. If she hears it directly from him that it wasn't all too bad, then maybe she'll realize that there's no reason for her to be this mad at you.0