I'm 29 and I've never had a serious relationship before, however I am currently headed in that direction with a wonderful woman. We've been seeing each other for about a month now and I really enjoy spending time with her, and I know she enjoys spending time with me because she'll tell me she wants to see me and doesn't care what we do and that she trusts me.
I think I'm fairly good with the big things and our dates always go really well and are creative, fun, and romantic. However I'm worried I might be overlooking some of the more subtle aspects of a relationship. For example, I've complimented her fashion sense a couple times but I just realized I've never told her how beautiful I think she is, so next time we go out on a romantic date I'm going to make sure I look her in the eyes and tell her.
So ladies, what are some of the "little things" your guy does for you that you appreciate? I'm just trying to get an idea of what goes on in a successful relationship and make sure I'm not missing anything simple obvious, like telling her how beautiful I think she is. Of course I will talk about this with her soon so that I know what she's looking for, but any tips you ladies have are helpful too!
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My boyfriend and I are total goofballs, haha. When we're together, his purpose in life is to irratate the heck out of me! He acts stupid and obnoxious and mean, and I always laugh and tell him how terrible he is. He only acts that way to get a reaction out of me. And then right when I start to get tired of his nonsense, he'll lay down next to me and touch my face and just gaze into my eyes. It makes my heart melt. :) And then he goes right back to annoying me, haha.
Anyway, moral of the story I guess: It's important to have fun together but still take time to get serious and remind that person how lucky you are.0