I put both genders since I'm pretty sure this happens on both sides, but almost every girl I meet wants to change something about me and I hate it. Why can't they just find someone who fits their needs?
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Quite frankly, I think it has to do with your personality. How do you present yourself to women? Do you appear vulnerable and 'too nice?' If you are, that's why the women feel they CAN change you. If you came across like a strong man who was not 'a douche' but confident in yourself, work and life (without a woman) will help you have a better chance with women.1