Ok I know he has it because he gets inhalers but I honestly think sometimes he puts it on just to get attention, like all day he's been having trouble breathing and last night but all he keeps doing is trying to have sex with me then when I refuse he just goes on about how sore he is and that.. Surely someone having an asthma attack sex would b the last thing on their minds? I've told him time and time again to go hospital to be put on a nebuliser when his inhalers don't work and he refuses to go he just wants cuddles or something until it goes away BUT I already have a 17 month old who already needs my constant attention and I don't see why I should put my son second and him first.. If I don't give him attention he just says oh well at least my ex knew how to make it better and I usually just say go fuck yourself and go back to her Nd tell him the why would I give him any sort of attention if he's going to say that! I honestly think sometimes he puts in on and pretends it's worse than it is and by the way my son is not his
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I have asthma. if I was truly having breathing issues I would have little concern or thought for sex. but really you should be able to tell if he has asthma beyond just having the inhaler. is he having trouble breathing? labored breathing? wheezing? coughing (to try and open up air passages)?
perhaps because of the attention you give your little one he seeks ways to get your attention and has found that this is an effective way. I think when he is going through this you should tell him. if you are having trouble breathing sex won't help. you need to relax and not put any strain on your body... that argument should be able to shut down any push for sex since it shows that you are concerned about his health and want him to take care of it1