Their is a Girl that gets my bus that im in love with and have made some contact before with here as it started out one day when I and a mate of mine were traveling home on the bus and he sat next to her who sat behind me but fell asleep, a quarter of the way through the journey she woke up and asked us if we had seen here phone which had dropped on the floor and she was very concerened that it didn't smash.
Anyway we had a look but couldn't find it and my mate was rather big and if he got up on the bus he would go flying down the isle. Halfway through the journey I said I would have a look for it if I could and when the opportunity was their I took it and got down on my knees and look over the floor for it and once I got I handed it nicely back to her looking her in the eyes. We all got talking on the way back and she kept thanking me for doing what I did. No other person did so.
More recently she has come out of a relationship after being cheated on and is very heartbroken but is slowly recovering. I really don't want to let a chance that I could be with here slip away and I am willing to do what ever is neccesery to be her new boyfreind.
I wanted to know from you girls how you suggest I should proceed.
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Her heart was broken, and it needs time to heal, her ex bf betrayed her, so she will have trust issues, so you will have to gain her trust very slowly, its good that you see her on a regular basis, cos it means you have more opportunities to talk to her, you should become friends with her first, the more you talk, the more she will open up to you, and in time she will let her barrier down, and learn to trust you, if you jump in with two feet and ask her on a date it might scare her off, girls feel vulnerable after a heartbreak, so when you become friends with her, she will start to feel emotionally secure with you, once this happens she will trust you, this will enable her to enter into a relationship with you, you can't tell her you aren't like other guys, or like her last bf, she won't believe it, she needs to find this out herself, by getting to know you, the more she gets to see your good qualities and how yout treat her as a friend, she will realise herself you are nothing like her ex, the key to having a relationship with a girl with a broken heart, is to help her feel emotionally secure, you need to be patient with her too, you seem very nice, hearts can be healed by the right person, being friends with her first will be a solid foundation for a good relationship with her. good luck1
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