Guys, you've probably heard a girl say one time or another that she doesn't need a man. How does this phrase sound to you? is it a turn off? The way I interpret this is that this girl is content with being single, but if she was in a relationship she'd need HER man. I've heard men say they like a women who can hold out on their own and others who say that they want a women who needs a man in there life. Which one is it?
Girls feel free to comment too! :)
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Yes, it's a turn off. I can't stand it when I hear girls say this. I interpret it as if they think that men have nothing to offer them, so why bother getting married. So, of course this annoys me because men (including myself) certainly have A LOT to offer a woman. Will I do some stupid things, we'll yeah most definitely. Hell, I'll probably do some real stupid things, but that doesn't mean that I don't have other positive qualities/characteristics.
I like confident and independent women who are not full of themselves. They DON'T NECESSARILY NEED A MAN in their lives, but want one because they're not ultra feminists who believe that men are meaningless, unnecessary, or just obsessed with sports. Basically a girl with good perspective on life.6
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