How do I get a shy guy to open up to me?

This guy just started working at my job and it's obvious that he likes me. Unfortunately, he's so shy that it's hard for him to talk to me and I still deal with some shyness on occasion. I try talking to him when I can but progress is slow. Tips please?


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  • Keep talking. Show interest in him. Be easy going around him. He'll eventually loosen up.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Take the lead. Ask him out and cut through the gender role red tape. He's shy because he has sone source of insecurity. Too new at dating, is not impressed with his own looks, etc. and with sexual harassment laws, he may never get beyond and awkward conversation.

    If you ask him out, either he'll go out with you or he won't. Either way, you know and can move on from there.

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  • Are you in the same dept, same area?

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  • Drop a few Xanax in his drink.

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  • Break the touch barrier

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