So I just started dating this guy, and he saw the scars on my thighs. I worry that if he knows about what I used to do he might bail. Thus I was curious... if you knew the person you were dating was a cutter, bulimic, anorexic, or any other type of self harm would you still date them? Could you still love them. Tell me what you think.
- Yeah. Of course.Vote A
- No. I don't think I could.Vote B
- Maybe, it depends.Vote C
- I have no clue.Vote D
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no i could not and not because of the self harming per se but because people that self harm are shy, emotional, and pessimistic and those are simply not qualities i wan't in a date.1