My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I love him but I make a lot of excuses for him. I'm gonna make a long story short. He's a jerk. He's a selfish mommas boy. That's just putting it in a nut shell. He's sweet too. He does a lot for me as I do for him too.
He often asks me if I wanna "hang out" after our son goes to bed. That usually means "do you wanna lay and watch tv until someone suggests sex and then go to bed" I always say yes to hanging out.
I often times have things to do after our son goes to bed. Like take a bath or clean up or run to the store real quick. And THEN I can "hang out" but because I don't jump to do what he asks as soon as our son goes to sleep he consideres it blowing him off. He says I wait until it's too late
Well just last night he asks if I wanna "hang out" I said "yes" but I have to take a bath first. I took a bath and washed my hair and shaved my legs and brushed my teeth. Then I was ready. He says I took too long and he went to bed. So NOW he says he's gonna stop asking me to do stuff for example I made breakfast and he didn't eat it. I told him I would go pick up his prescription and he said don't my mom will. And I am just beyond frustrated and I want to know am I wrong? If I say I will hang out with him should I before I do all that extra stuff or is he being ridiculous?
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I think the two of you are having communication problems. Neither of you are really at fault, you just aren't understanding the other. I have a friend that told me the book "men are from Mars, women are from Venus" saved his marriage, by helping then communicate better. Maybe it might help you.0