I have always wondered this. For people who are physically attractive, how do you feel about the ease with which you can date, because people of the opposite gender are attracted to you? Are you happy about it, or do you feel privileged about being born with good looks? Are you glad that people of the opposite gender compliment you about your looks so often, and want to date you? Does this improve your self confidence, and motivate you to be successful in other aspects of life too?
As a 29 year old guy who has never been liked by a female in his entire life because I'm supposedly not 'physically attractive', I have always wondered what would life be like for physically attractive men and women. I'd appreciate valuable inputs.
Most Helpful Girl
It definetly gives you pluses in life, however when dating its very hard to get people to see past the looks and actually find out what I'm like. I like to think that my personality is much more amazing than looks. So I preffer when a guy pays attention to that. However that doesn't mean I don't a ppreciate a compliment onece in a while.1
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Most Helpful Guy
This question should be directed purely at guys, because unless you are really attractive, you simply don't get girls being forward with you. Where as with girls the results can be largely inaccurate because of the nature of men, we'll complement any woman if we're horny enough, and most guys complement any woman. In the Uk you get girls who are well below 5/10 on looks being ballooned to believe they are 9/10's simply due to over zealous guys.
Now, i get a lot of girls vying for my attention, i grew up as the ugly duckling in my eyes so i can't say i see myself as serious attractive physically... but spiritually, i know i have a very powerful pull about me that most women find hard to stay away from. Let us not confuse honesty with ego btw.
As your self confidence improves, you become more attractive to women, the more women find you attractive, the more motivated you are to improve your self confidence and knowledge base. It's cool, but like with all things, it's novelty fades.0