Ok so we broke up over trust issues on his part, he said he couldn't trust me even though I gave him no real reason not to...silly little things like saying I did do something so not to cause an argument when I did do it, Like going to the cinema with a friend instead of him. Stupid things.
But anyway I broke up with him because his trust issues were effecting us. At the start of the relationship for the first 3 or so month it was amazing I had never felt so loved by one person in my life, knew he would do anything for me. But he started getting jealous of me going out with my mates...always asking when id be finished so I could go see him or whatever So I broke it off after 6 amazing months. I still love him so much and I texted him telling him I missed him one night out the blue and he texted back saying he missed me to and was glad I texted him. So we met up...ad slept together :( ..big mistake it just made me miss him even more...so after a few weeks I returned from a holiday and met him again to talk things over. He came out with all this stuff how he didn't want a 24/7 relationship seeing me and txting me every min of the day...I'm like wasn't it YOU who wanted that in the first place! his reply was well its taken its tole... so I was like that's fine with me I don't want that either but I won't be your part time girlfriend or booty call he said I wouldn't be that he wouldn't disrespect me like that. ... So we kissed cuddled etc etc and a the " Whole again" came on the radio and he smiled and nodded towards the radio and kissed me, I asked him what was happening with us then and he said Well keep seeing each other take things a bit slower this time ( first time round everything moved really fast ) I agreed. That was over a week ago...and since then I've heard nothing from him..1 text during the week asking if I was OK I replied and asked him if he was...got no reply.then drunkenly one night I sent him a long text saying I still loved him and missed him and even if he didn't feel that way now that I just wanted him to know that ...( was sitting feeling lonely and was reading texts he had sent me months ago...all of which ended I love you so much baby forever which just made me feel even more sorry for my self) ...he didn't reply and hasn't texted me again since before that...what do I do...Do I take it he don't want to be with me anymore and move on...or do you think he is waiting for me to text him?...I know he misses me cause I asked if he did and he was like "Course I miss you I think about you constantly...but things need to change" So I really don't know what to do :(. Help! ..
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If he said to make it take time, just go with it. I know you miss him, but the only way to prove that he misses you is to give him space. That's what he wanted. I think he is acting this way to 'test' out if he can trust you since you broke up with him. That's what I did with my ex but we never got back. Anyway, I would act very 'cold' with my ex on text... wouldn't reply some times only because he broke my heart by breaking up with me. Maybe he is doing the same tactic and seeing if you really do love/miss him and would do the 'dirty' work. The only thing is you asked him to come back right? Well if you did, and he said nothing, I would not entirely wait for him. He has to show that he cares too if he wants to work things out. You need to have a face to face talk if you want to get this through that him not talking to you is hurting you. Don't seem desperate because he will take that to his advantage as people are a bit nasty in the head after you have hurt him (by breaking up with him and whatever his issues were). Hang in there! If he loves you enough, he will show you. Remember, actions speak louder than words.0