Ok so i've been dating my boyfriend Logan for like 2 1/2 years now and its been great but lately he's been getting really controlling. He hasn't hit me or anything, but he is really scary sometimes, and i've noticed. I've seen him steal a lot from places when im with him!!
and wherever we go he is always the life of the party everyone loves him, doesn't matter who he is with. But some guy started with him at the party, and said some things... and i didn't even know Logan was mad. We stopped by that kid's house, like the next day, and he told me to wait in the car because he forgot something, so i waited, and we left. I found out later Logan assaulted him really badly, and the kids dog is apparently missing now.
But it isn't just this tho. He doesn't care about anything, like litterly anything!!! I mean he'll lie to me and i believe him every time, like everyone does, even my friends believe him, even when we knew he has lied before. Even his own friends he doesn't care about. He's really mean to them, and the next day everyone is following him again... like he's some kind of leader.
He blames his shit on all the jobs he's had (he's had like 9 in 2 months), but he always has freakin money so wtf!!
Im still attracted to him (he looks like Tyler Durden but with long hair) but a lot of guys i know say he's really dangerous and i just don't what to believe anymore. Logan's also really manipulative, i don't know how to explain it, its just he is. I mean he was always a bad boy but I don't know what to do. What is wrong with him :(
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He sounds narcissistic. I've dated one and anyone who insults their ego WILL PAY. How much they make you pay depends on the person. But he would get very angry and attack me verbally when I told him something he didn't like, or if i pointed out a flaw.
The guy I dated was also really manipulative like the one you're dating. The fact that he only cares about himself seems narcissistic also.
I would leave. He can't love you or anyone.1
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