I ended something because I couldn't accept his weird conditions for not being able to commit. he acted really cold, mean, and incredibly just... cruel. he usually makes an effort to come across as a good, kind person. does this mean he was hurt by the break up or he just wanted to end the conversation and didn't really care? I called twice to talk, he picked up right away. he didn't say anything insulting, but he was incredibly cold and what he did say was so uncaring and thoughtless it at one point made me say wow over the phone.
- yes, he's hurtVote A
- no, he just wanted to get off the phoneVote B
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Nope, he NOT hurt the way you might think - Not the way girls are usually hurt when their guy dumps them out of the blue. His anger is coming from a bruised ego. He's mad because you took power away from him, in his mind, you just called him a dork, a loser, ugly, with a small penis. I think this is the case, reason being, if he really did love you, or at least cared for you a descent amount, he would have cried, and/or argue that you don't really mean that - you're just confused, and/or throw you a million 'Why?'s. (i. e; 'I think we need to go ahead and break up.' - 'What? Nooo. Whhyyyyy? Why? what do you mean? You're dumping me? Why? You know I love you, right? Then why? What did I do? Just tell me what I did wrong. Just give me another chance. Can't I get another chance? Why do you want to leave me? You don't like me anymore? Please, what did I do?' - THAT'S how you'd know he had been genuinely hurt, (Hurt in the traditional break-up sense, I mean).
So, basically, he's a jerk-off, asshole, scum-bag, douche. He may regret what he said after a few days, and try to apologize to you. Maybe because he realizes he misses you, or he feels bad for what he said on the phone, or he's just afraid to be alone. What ever happens, even if he wants to get back with you, and agrees to a committed relationship, don't do it. He's doesn't deserve you - he's obviously an asshole, and will hurt YOU sooner or later. Don't stress over what happened, its actually a good thing you found out now, before YOU committed to HIM. You just saved yourself a lot of wasted time - maybe even as much as years.
It's OK, Sweetheart. Move on, and you'll be a happier person for it. Good luck, and God bless. :)0
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