Sometimes my bf is distant after sex. We have been dating for a little over a year and have lived together basically our whole relationship. It's not always like this. And it's not a big distant thing. For example we will be cuddling in bed watching tv. We then do it. And after we are done we sometimes watch TV again. But he doesn't cuddle with me unless I ask him. Why is he like this after sex once in awhile?
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Let's put it like thhis. Right before and during sex his hormone levels will spike. And during release all those hormones will be released, resulting in a serious hormone low right after sex. This causes a change in behavior. For some it's barely noticeable, and for others it's quite dramatic. Also it can vary from day to day.
so it's quite normal, and while annoying to you he can't help it. I'm afraid you just have to accept it as a part of him.2