there's someone who told me that really pretty girls are often lonely, since no one is brave enough to approach them - etc.
I think I'm pretty attractive as a guy, but am pretty lonely overall since most girls I meet are either unavailable or don't have the confidence to think I'd be interested.
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It kind of sucks being seen as conventionally attractive. The only men who approach me are either really arrogant, or really bitter or snide, thinking I'm going to reject them. No one takes my problems seriously, it's always, "Well you're pretty/Well you're thin/white/female." When I wasn't looking that great (health issues) I got a lot more positive attention from people, people actually caring about me and if I was doing okay.
I get a lot of negative attention from other women, and to this date I can't say I've ever been true friends with a female (who wasn't a lesbian/bisexual).
For all the free drinks I've gotten I think I would rather be seen as less attractive because it makes everything as competitive and I constantly feel objectified/seen as a prize.
I feel you, dude.0