So there's this girl who works in the same strip mall as I do. I'm pretty friendly with her and her coworkers, and the four of us usually have the same shift on weekends. She and I have been sort of flirting back and forth (She said I looked like "a really hot guy" on the tv show she likes and I've told her she looks like a singer I like.) The coffee shop across the street from us is running a buy one get one free special, (we all like the drinks, but they're a bit more expensive, so it's a treat to be able to go) and I was thinking about picking something up for all of us and surprising them before they clocked out, then asking if she's free sometime.
Does this seem like a jerk move or too forward? I love her company and enjoy the friendship, and if she wants to try dating, I'd be happy to give it a shot, but if I'm misreading her I don't want to seem pushy or creepy.
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thats really cute, I'm sure shell appreciate the gesture - and girls are so insecure, she might need this hint that you like her.
even if she doesn't like you back, you seem like a really nice guy, and so if you're cool about it if she has to reject you, it will help make things less awkward - if she feels like you still want to be friends even if she says no, everything will be ok.
go for it! :)0