We've dated only 4 times, made out very often... he's always been respectful, I want to be honest with him before he falls in love and maybe gets disapointed.. :(
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Goddaamit... tell him ASAP. If he loves you he can wait for marriage as long as you give him some relief with your hands or mouth. While your at it tell him you care for him as well... if you do. If he is not marriage material then it may not be kind to lead him on to a never ending journey. But that is up to you.
Be careful though, if he is 'too respectful' he is a queer. If I was dating you... you would complain you were dating an octopus. (Not to mention my tongue.) You would have to come clean with your virginal plan on date #1 or #2 with me. There would have to be a very good reason why the panties were not coming off and why my tongue was not being let in. And we would not have 4 dates in 1 month. We would be seeing each other multiple times a week, preferably daily. Good luck!0