Been dating this guy for 4 months. He's leaving on vacatio and im worried he's gonna hook up with someone:(I always worry because we're not committed and we haven't talked about our relationship and I honestly do not know what he truly feels for me. I'm so tired of all this worrying. I'm afraid to tell him how I truly feel for him because I don't want to scare him. Last time I told a guy my true feelings, he broke up with me so now I'm being super cautious. Guys what should I do? :(((
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My personal opinion is that you should be able to talk to him about this (your guys' commitment level) now that you've been seeing one another for this long. I mean, four months is a pretty long time.
You can't run from the conversation forever, you gotta be prepared to go after what you want. If he happens to get scared off by this conversation after having dated for four months, then it's highly unlikely that the dude would EVER want to commit you to anyhow.1