Met a handsome model type dude while going out last night. This guy kept saying how he never picks up women, they come to him. Fair enough... he was like a mens health poster. I am also fairly attractive and do gym. So we thought we would go and pick up some girls. Thursday is a bit more silent and we ended up at a bar that was in short... full of guys and a few women. So model boy sat at the bar waiting for some girl I suppose, but I put on my brave face and went to the group of girls and started chatting. The most beautiful of the girls started chatting to me and we went to the bar together. Despite some attempts by every guy and my new pretty boy friend to chat to her... she chatted to me. But due to my poor social skills calibration with women... I got friendshipzoned. She didn't even acknowledge pretty boy as she said he was a douche. Guess what... some thin, nerdy stereotype, that I would actually consider a virgin, came to her with more direct dating game... and got her!! I wanted to high 5 the guy. He pulled the best girl from 2 good looking, gym going, well dressed, party guys. My poor social skills with women, and pretty boys over arrogance cost us ha ha. SOCIAL SKILLS GUYS... its all that counts.
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When you're a good looking guy you shouldn't try too hard for any woman. But you do still have to have social skills. Obviously if you're just sitting at the bar not talking to anyone around you, you will look like the anti social and girls (at clubs) care more about your social value than your looks so that's why the skinny dude got the girl. He just knew what to say or maybe he already knew her who knows. Either way if you're a good looking guy you will always have it way easier. I've had girls start making out with me at parties and been approached at clubs by girls before. Just don't try too hard because you're not desperate.0
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