this is what happens to me. a girl will show interest in me. then a girl makes it obvious they like me,
I come along slowly and show a little interest while at same time coming up with reasons why I shouldn't ask them out.
girl either goes in to super obvious mode or starts to slow things down
now I develop feelings and imagine myself dating her while at same time still debating.
girl looses interest little by little, its obvious. but she still may like me,
I decide its now or never and make my move.
I get an ok reaction but its not what I want. I get feeling she dosent like me like that. even though shehas shown 200 signs she was.
I do this a lot. im sabotaging myself. anyone else do something close to this?
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It sounds like you are commitment conflicted.
It's ok, especially if you recognize it in yourself, which I think you do.
You're going to have to deal with it in your own way.
You are losing out on a big part of life though by denying yourself some important arts of dating and socializing.
Go out, overcome your comfort zone a little bit, and give the girls a chance
We can be fun.
My guy says I'm a lot of fun.