I have always wondered this. Where are some good places to meet people that have good character? I am talking about folks with a good moral compass and well rounded individual. I'm not really the kind of guy that likes to go do the bar scene, and I am not the type of guy that appreciates one night stands. I don't have any problem with picking up chicks, but the last few girls I have dated have had some serious emotional baggage in tow... and I would like to avoid that from now on.
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I'd say a library is a good idea: you'll find ambitious, intelligent girls there. I'd be thrilled if a nice guy came to talk to me at a library - it immediately indicates that he appreciates my mind - as long as you don't harass her when she's trying to study
I bet you'd also find nice, artsy girls at museums - or culturally interested ones, if you pick a history museum or similar - really any type of museum will do, just make sure you are also interested in that topic, so that your pick-up line isn't "I thought I might find a hot, smart girl here."
Girls who take the same classes as you might not be a bad idea either, since you obviously share interests, but I'm sure you've already tried that.
Maybe try some upscale cafes? Maybe cute business chicks hang out there.
Almost everybody has emotional baggage, and sometimes this can actually make them stronger, and give them a wider view on life, in my opinion. What you're looking for is a girl who knows how to deal with the baggage, not one who doesn't have any. It's nobody's fault if they have emotional baggage - the girl of your dreams could have a horrible family history. You wouldn't pass her up because of it, would you?0