I'm 25 and my bf is 26. We have been dating for about 6 months but I am head over heels in love with him. I have had two long term relationships before him and have never loved anyone how I do him.
I feel like I can't be without him and I would truly do anything for him. The thing is, he doesn't love me, he said since his ex he finds it hard to fall in love. It seems nothing I do is ever the right thing and I'm always confused lately.
I always communicate my feelings but just end up even more confused. I'm madly in love but feeling hurt lately by the lack of commitment. What should I do?
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Actually that's good advice. If you love him and want him you may need to help him, even though he may not realize it.
I was that guy for years. Lost my one love and found it difficult to get beyond it. I even got married, but wasn't feeling the same love. It took years before I got beyond it. Looking back I wish I had had a heart to heart talk with my then girlfriend, now wife. It would have brought us closer sooner and made for a better marriage.
Help him get over his ex, by talking WITH him, not to him. You essentially will be his therapist. Just don't tell him that. Be his friend, his confidant. It will very likely bring you two much closer together. Give him what is ex couldn't and didn't. Be his friend, first.1
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